I had no intention of writing about this, but it was a fun and light moment that made our children's day. We were traveling from Heber valley to American Fork for a soccer game. The fall colors lit up the mountainside with a deep red, which makes the drive all the more enjoyable.
In the canyon we passed two nice cars and I wondered who the passengers might be. I didn't pay any more attention until we pulled up to a red light in Orem. Those two same cars approached us from behind and pulled up next to us. I looked in the back of the car and was surprised to see President Monson and his wife sitting there. I told our kids to look and see if they could tell us who pulled up next to us. It took them a minute and then they realized it was President Monson.
Although he probably gets it all the time, I rolled down our sons window and let him and our daughters wave to them. As soon as they saw our kids waiving, they leaned forward with a big smile and vigorously waved back.
He may not be perfect, I realize he's still a man, but he's been an inspiration to me on multiple occasions. He has a heavy load to carry...one I couldn't even begin to imagine. Yet, he finds time to smile and lift those around him. We've had a chance to be close to him on other occasions and in those times he's always lifted those around him.
Nothing doctrinal in this post, just a fun story about something that made our children's day. They were pretty excited the rest of the evening and it brought a smile to our faces as well!
Wednesday, September 12, 2012
Sunday, September 9, 2012
Lessons of Love and Service
I came across this story shared by President Monson. This story involves two men in Midway, Utah (near where we live). There are numerous lessons to be learned in this simple story.
The story is told as follows:
The story is told as follows:
Long years ago, Roy Kohler and Grant Remund served together in Church capacities. They were the best of friends. They were tillers of the soil and dairymen. Then a misunderstanding arose which became somewhat of a rift between them.
Later, when Roy Kohler became grievously ill with cancer and had but a limited time to live, my wife, Frances, and I visited Roy and his wife, and I gave him a blessing. As we talked afterward, Brother Kohler said, "Let me tell you about one of the sweetest experiences I have had during my life." He then recounted to me his misunderstanding with Grant Remund and the ensuing estrangement. His comment was, "We were sort of on the outs with each other."
"Then" continued Roy, "I had just put up our hay for the winter to come, when one night, as a result of spontaneous combustion, the hay caught fire, burning the hay, the barn, and everything in it right to the ground. I was devastated," said Roy. "I didn't know what in the world I would do. The night was dark except for the dying embers of the fire. Then I saw coming toward me from the road, in the direction of Grant Remund's place, the lights of tractors and heavy equipment. As the "rescue party" turned in our drive and met me amidst my tears," Grant said, "Roy, you've got quite a mess to clean up. My boys and I are here. Let's get to it." Together they plunged in to the task at hand. Gone forever was the hidden wedge which had separated them for a short time. They worked throughout the night and into the next day, with many others in the community joining in.
Roy Kohler has passed away, and Grant Remund is getting older. Their sons have served together in the same ward bishopric. I truly treasure the friendship of these two wonderful families. (General Conference Report, Apr. 2002, 22)
If we really ponder this story, there are many life lessons:
- What caused the rift in the first place? Why did they it allow it to cause a rift?
- How many memories were lost during that time when they were "on the outs" with each other?
- What would have happened through the generations had Grant not come to help that night with his children?
- How many wonderful memories came to these two men and their posterity as a result of forgiveness and charity?
I conclude with this wonderful admonition and thought from Moroni:
"Wherefore, my beloved brethren, if ye have not charity, ye are nothing, for charity never faileth. Wherefore, cleave unto charity, which is the greatest of all, for all things must fail—" (Moroni 7:46)
Thursday, August 30, 2012
That Which Ye Send Out Shall Return Unto You Again
This post
is more for me than anyone else. I pose
some questions for self-introspection:
- How do we
treat others?
- How do we
treat those who seemingly have nothing to offer us?
- Do we get
upset at others' shortcomings?
- How do we
treat the telemarketer, the person who cuts us off in traffic, the person who's spoken unkindly about us
when we weren't there, the person who in some way offended us, etc.?
The choice
is ours and I believe this promise in Alma 41 will hold true in this life as
well as in the life to come:
14 Therefore, my son, see that
you are merciful unto your brethren; deal justly, judge righteously, and do
good continually; and if
ye do all these things then shall ye receive your reward; yea, ye shall
have mercy restored unto you again; ye shall have justice restored unto
you again; ye shall have a righteous judgment restored unto you again;
and ye shall have good rewarded unto you again.
15 For
that which ye do send out shall return unto you again, and be restored;
therefore, the word restoration more fully condemneth the sinner, and
justifieth him not at all.
I interpret
this promise in two literal ways:
1. When we
do good and are kind to others, good will be returned or restored unto us. Some call it Karma. We never know in what way it is returned unto us, but it is.
Likewise, when we hurt, offend, or injure others emotionally, it will also be
restored unto us in this life. Our actions towards others will catch up with us
at some point, one way or the other.
2. When we
pass through the veil, in a magnificent way our life will be opened up to us (and the Lord). We will see the consequence of our decisions and actions and how
they affected others. If we were kind, we will see the ripple effect it caused
in that individual's life - we will feel the emotional lift we helped cause. If
we injured another through insult or rudeness, we will see and feel the ripples
it caused - we will see and feel the emotional hurt it caused that individual
and others. All our actions and the effects from those actions will be opened
to our vision and we'll see them, both the good and the bad. In that day, the
Lord will stand with love and mercy, however we will be our own judge as these
events unfold before our senses. The
Lord won't have to "say" anything, it will be apparent to us as it
unfolds, there will be no hiding from this panorama of our life.
I remember
at Utah State when I pulled up to the parking attendant to pay the $4 I owed
for parking. The attendant said, "No charge. The car in front of you paid
for your parking." I was in awe! I did my best to try and catch the car,
but to no avail. The rest of the day was spent trying to find ways to help
others. I determined that day to try and do simple acts of kindness to lift
others. The simple act of a stranger
helped change my life in a profound way.
I invite
each of us to find something this week that will lift someone. Also, I invite
us to temper our emotions and remember to let the small things go - only focus
our time and energy on lifting others!
Sunday, August 26, 2012
The Symbol of the Spoon
We sat in a marriage and family relations class today where the instructor used an analogy which might be a great reminder and visual illustration for adults as well as children. Every time we pick up a spoon we can hold it up and look at the reflection. This simple analogy is very symbolic of the realities of life.
When we hold up a spoon and turn it inward we see everything upside down.
When we hold up a spoon and turn it outward, we see our reflection as it really is.
Matthew 10:39:
"He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it."
Mosiah 2:17:
"And behold, I tell you these things that ye may learn wisdom; that ye may learn that when ye are in the service of your fellow beings ye are only in the service of your God."
When we focus on satisfying our own needs and wants (the natural man) our perspective of life is upside down. We only begin to see clearly when we're filled with charity, the pure love of Christ, and seek the welfare of others. It's when we start emulating the Savior that our vision begins to open up and we start to see things as they really are. What a joyous awakening it is when this begins to happen!
Friday, August 17, 2012
The Temple
My Wife and I had the opportunity to attend the Provo Temple last night. We chose to do sealings and we participated in a special experience. In the middle of our work, they escorted three sisters into the room. We assisted with the sealing ordinance of the parents of one of those sisters. Her parents died several years ago. Following the sealing of her parents, she was then sealed to her parents as a daughter. A special spirit was in the room.
The Sealer spoke with us for a few minutes and we had a good discussion. As a result, I walked out of the temple with two new thoughts:
1. The ordinances of the Gospel are chiasmic. Look carefully at the wording of the baptismal prayer and the sealing. There are several words shared in those two prayers which are ONLY used in those two prayers. It begins with the Father and culminates with the Father.
2. An approach I plan to use with the temple from this point forward is to ask myself this question every time, "What can I take away today that will help me improve my behavior or some part of my personality?" Often I go looking for knowledge, knowledge without conversion is only condemning. It's when we allow that knowledge to mold our character that the temple unfolds a pathway to exaltation. If we're the same person after being in the temple that we were before, we're no closer to the Lord.
This was an interesting observation for me and I'm grateful to the Lord for that small revelation.
Wednesday, August 8, 2012
Emotions of the Lord
Sometimes we think the Lord is more like an object rather than a resurrected being and that he doesn't experience various emotions. His life, as given in the scriptures, would indicate otherwise. What's fascinating to me is that he does experience many emotions, but he has learned to master them and control them as an exalted God would control them.
My questions are:
Since he experiences emotions, how does he handle and control those emotions as an exalted being?
What lesson is there for each one of us if we ponder the answer(s) to the previous question?
If he continues to experience emotion, how important is it for each of us as mortals to learn, here and now, to control and master our emotions? How do we do it?
Without putting the actual verbiage of the scripture in this post, I've simply put a reference to each verse that details an example of when Christ exhibited a particular emotion. It's actually quite interesting to read each verse, but I'll leave that to the individual.
Wrath: D&C 76:33, Ether2:8&9, 1 Nephi 13:11, 1 Nephi
22:16, 3 Nephi 22:8, Alma 13:30
Anger: Helaman 11:12, Helaman 13:30, 2 Nephi 15:25, 2 Nephi
23:13, Alma 8:29, D&C 61:20, D&C 61:5, D&C 84:24,
Mercy: 3 Nephi 22:7&8,
Ether 11:8, Alma 5:4, Alma 5:33,Alma 9:26, D&C 99:3, D&C 88:40, D&C
101:9, Romans 9:15
Compassion: D&C 101:9, 3 Nephi 17:6, 1 Nephi 21:15, Luke 7:13, Mark 1:41, D&C 64:2, Matthew
20:34, Matthew 14:14
Joy: 3 Nephi 17:20, 3 Nephi 27:30, D&C 88:53, 2
Corinthians 2:3, 3 John 1:4, John 3:29, Alma 27:18
Wednesday, August 1, 2012
Why Do We Justify Sin?
This is short and I simply want to pose a thought and a few questions.
Yesterday, we visited someone who had previously been sealed in the Temple. She hasn't been "active" in the church for years and she's since removed her garments. According to her she still believes it's true, but she feels like people are judging her because she likes to drink wine. She's passed judgement on the organization and the imperfect members and has therefore withdrawn herself from the blessings associated with it. What we listened to were her "justifications" for being where she currently is and why she's happy with that. This is the same conversation I've had with countless people across the world. I was truly saddened as we listened. The adversary uses this same tactic over and over and he's become quite successful.
A truth rang true in my mind as we sat there and this goes along with my previous post. D&C 130 mentions that the same sociality which exists among us here will exist among us there. We judge ourselves! When someone has justified an action or behavior, they will see what they want to see and find what they want to find. If they want to find that small group who "judges them", they'll find it. I grant there are some close-minded and rude people within the church, but that is the exception - just like any organization. More often than not, if someone comes back after a period of absence, they are welcomed with open arms by a host of different people. At least that has been my observation. But, someone tends to judge themselves when they're in that environment and obviously doesn't want to be there because they feel uncomfortable. How will that person feel when they're not sitting in front of a group of people, but the Lord himself who reveals all truth? We invited, loved, and tried to convey a humble testimony that the Savior loves and extends mercy and compassion, regardless of who the person is - we'll see if it makes a difference. But now, I want to turn this to ourselves.
How have we allowed the adversary to become so successful in our lives?
In Helaman, chapter 8, I read this in verses 24 and 25, "And now, seeing ye know these things and cannot deny them except ye shall lie, therefore in this ye have sinned, for ye have rejected all these things, notwithstanding so many evidences which ye have received; yea, even ye have received ball things, both things in heaven, and all things which are in the earth, as a witness that they are true. But behold, ye have rejected the truth, and rebelled against your holy God; and even at this time, instead of laying up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where nothing doth corrupt, and where nothing can come which is unclean, ye are heaping up for yourselves wrath against the day of judgment."
- Is there any thing in our life which we currently justify?
- Are we lying to ourselves about any particular area of our life?
- What are we specifically doing to lay up treasures in heaven?
Yesterday, we visited someone who had previously been sealed in the Temple. She hasn't been "active" in the church for years and she's since removed her garments. According to her she still believes it's true, but she feels like people are judging her because she likes to drink wine. She's passed judgement on the organization and the imperfect members and has therefore withdrawn herself from the blessings associated with it. What we listened to were her "justifications" for being where she currently is and why she's happy with that. This is the same conversation I've had with countless people across the world. I was truly saddened as we listened. The adversary uses this same tactic over and over and he's become quite successful.
A truth rang true in my mind as we sat there and this goes along with my previous post. D&C 130 mentions that the same sociality which exists among us here will exist among us there. We judge ourselves! When someone has justified an action or behavior, they will see what they want to see and find what they want to find. If they want to find that small group who "judges them", they'll find it. I grant there are some close-minded and rude people within the church, but that is the exception - just like any organization. More often than not, if someone comes back after a period of absence, they are welcomed with open arms by a host of different people. At least that has been my observation. But, someone tends to judge themselves when they're in that environment and obviously doesn't want to be there because they feel uncomfortable. How will that person feel when they're not sitting in front of a group of people, but the Lord himself who reveals all truth? We invited, loved, and tried to convey a humble testimony that the Savior loves and extends mercy and compassion, regardless of who the person is - we'll see if it makes a difference. But now, I want to turn this to ourselves.
How have we allowed the adversary to become so successful in our lives?
In Helaman, chapter 8, I read this in verses 24 and 25, "And now, seeing ye know these things and cannot deny them except ye shall lie, therefore in this ye have sinned, for ye have rejected all these things, notwithstanding so many evidences which ye have received; yea, even ye have received ball things, both things in heaven, and all things which are in the earth, as a witness that they are true. But behold, ye have rejected the truth, and rebelled against your holy God; and even at this time, instead of laying up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where nothing doth corrupt, and where nothing can come which is unclean, ye are heaping up for yourselves wrath against the day of judgment."
- Is there any thing in our life which we currently justify?
- Are we lying to ourselves about any particular area of our life?
- What are we specifically doing to lay up treasures in heaven?
Monday, July 30, 2012
The Purpose of Life
Every once in a while a life changing book comes along and really
inspires the reader. Yesterday I finished a book
that falls into that category. I've heard a couple of people talk about the book and it
truly was a life-changing work!
The book is Return From Tomorrow written by George Ritchie. I look forward to reading his next
book, Ordered to Return. He's not an LDS Author, but I can say that
based on my own personal experiences and the doctrine as I understand it, his
experience was real and true. His experience is consistent with previous
revelation and experiences we read about in the scriptures.
He puts life in perspective for each one of us. He gives the
reader a perspective of what awaits us and what we should do with our time.
I will try (although inadequately) to sum up his book:
1) When we pass on from this life we'll see our entire life
and how our actions have affected others, both good and bad.
2) When his spirit was separated, there was no progress
unless he kept his focus towards the Lord. Then, and only then, was he able to
see things as they really are.
3) The question that repeatedly came to his mind was, "What
have you done with your life?" He
was the one to answer his own question. It was manifest in his innermost
thoughts and desires.
4) It's all about developing love and relationships and
building others - isn't that what Christ did and still does?
This young 19 year old man had a life changing experience
and he was converted to the Lord (as far as I can tell). Every day of
his life from that point forward revolved around that experience.
As a result of reading this book, I've re-committed to ask myself these questions each morning:
1) Lord, how can I serve thee today and be an instrument in
thy hands?
2) Who's life did I affect today? How did I help, lift, or
inspire someone to become better and look towards our Master?
Friday, July 27, 2012
How to Get Personal Revelation
I've attached a wonderful discourse given by Bruce R.
McConkie at a BYU devotional in 1966. In this devotional he teaches some
wonderful truths that seem to have been lost among many in the current culture
of the church. This is the link:
Of note, we should each become a prophet or prophetess. Now,
what does that mean? The spirit of prophecy is the testimony of Jesus. This discourse clearly describes what that
is. It begins with dreams, visions, and angelic ministration. It culminates
with the ministry of Christ and the Father (D&C 93, John 17:3).
He reminds us that these visions, dreams, and ministry are
NOT just for someone with a calling, it's for any member or individual who
abides the law. God is no respecter of persons and marvelous experiences are
not obtained by virtue of a calling. A culture has seemed to creep into the
church that divine revelation is only for General Authorities, Elder McConkie
clearly rebukes that myth. It's the responsibility of each person to
individually find and become like the Lord, literally.
Elder McConkie brings up a great point. We (as a whole) tend
to attribute living revelation to the Prophet Joseph and others, but we rarely
make a claim to personal angelic ministration.
It is our responsibility to seek to be taught by the heavens.
D&C 11:25 warns us, "Deny not the spirit of
revelation, nor the spirit of prophecy, for wo unto him that denieth these
things." I would suggest that this
is directed to each one of us individually.
The question I ask myself is "what things am I doing to inhibit the
spirit of revelation?" If we inhibit the spirit of revelation, we are
essentially denying it by our actions. If that be the case, then wo unto us and
we should speedily repent.
What a marvelous time we live in when the heavens are open.
If we humbly seek the Lord, confess our sins, and repent, the heavens can be
open to any individual!
Monday, July 23, 2012
Your Actions Speak Louder Than Your Words
This will be short. When Helaman, the Son of Helaman, named his children Nephi and Lehi, he did so with a purpose. He named them so they might remember the "works" of their fathers and ancestors (Hel 5:6-8).
If you're a parent or spouse, I ask you (and myself) this simple question:
What are your actions or works towards your spouse and children? Answer yourself honestly with no guile or justification.
I love the quote which says, "I can't hear your words because your actions are shouting." Certainly our actions speak louder than our words. What a wonderful state we're in if our words match our actions - that was the life of the Savior!
As a parent or spouse, let us recommit to teach our children and love our spouse through our actions and words. If we use words without action or works, that is condemning. When the actions begin to match the words and we repent of our follies through the atonement, that is exalting!
If you're a parent or spouse, I ask you (and myself) this simple question:
What are your actions or works towards your spouse and children? Answer yourself honestly with no guile or justification.
I love the quote which says, "I can't hear your words because your actions are shouting." Certainly our actions speak louder than our words. What a wonderful state we're in if our words match our actions - that was the life of the Savior!
As a parent or spouse, let us recommit to teach our children and love our spouse through our actions and words. If we use words without action or works, that is condemning. When the actions begin to match the words and we repent of our follies through the atonement, that is exalting!
Friday, July 20, 2012
Part 2: General Commandments and Personal Commandments
Part 2
In this post I want to share my approach to life and the
gospel, it allows me to control what I can control. Whether others are right or
wrong in their decisions is between them and the Lord. This is the approach I've taken in trying to
seek the Lord and honor the rites, ordinances, and sustain men to callings they
have within the church organization. I don't believe they're mutually
exclusive, but complementary. Men and organizations will stray and can make
mistakes from time to time, but again, I'll explain my role and approach to
that:
In D&C 93:19-20 it says, "I give unto you these sayings that you may understand and know how to
worship, and know what you worship, that you come unto the Father in my name,
and in due time receive of his fullness. For if you keep MY
commandments you SHALL receive of his fullness, and be glorified in ME as I
am in the Father, therefore, I say unto you , you shall receive GRACE for
GRACE." All those who are
begotten THROUGH ME are partakers of the glory of the same, and are of the
Church of the Firstborn."
I sat on a beautiful green hilltop one morning and watched
the brilliant sun crest the horizon. I pondered these verses when I was taught
something beautiful and this is what I was taught:
One of the keys in those verses is when he says, "MY
commandments." What became clear to me is that to truly worship the Father
and come unto him, through his Son, there are really two types of commandments:
Those commandments asked of everyone and PERSONAL commandments. If we expect to
draw near to the Lord and be redeemed by him, we must be able to live and
adhere to both types.
1) General Commandments. If we raise our hand to sustain the First
Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve then we also agree to pay tithing, obey the
Word of Wisdom, serve in church callings, hometeach and visit families to whom
we're assigned, speak or participate when asked to do so, and participate in
temple work. This has been an enormous
blessing throughout my life. What I've learned serving in callings and the
associations made have changed me and helped me become a better person. I could
start listing names of those I've associated with inside the church and it
would get extensively long, I've been blessed by each name on that list. Often
times it was working with an "inactive young man" or assigned to home
teach someone who's life was in shambles and hadn't associated with the church
for years. I could write pages about experiences and blessings that have come
through the church and serving in the church.
These are the general commandments and things we've
committed to do if we sustain our leadership by common consent. These are
foundational commandments and, in many cases, a predecessor to the greater
commandments or personal commandments.
2) Personal Commandments: I believe this next type of commandment is
the greater type of commandment and comes to us when we are able to follow the
foundational commandments discussed previously and when we humbly seek the Lord
with full purpose of heart. Following these commandments will help your power
in the priesthood grow. In D&C 93,
the promise is to those who keep "MY commandments." This is a much
higher form of communication than the most basic commandments. This is when we
begin to receive personal direction from the Lord on a daily basis. We learn to
follow that direction and the communication and revelatory experiences increase
to the measure we keep those personal directives or commandments. In a general conference address, Elder Scott
gave a talk titled To
Acquire Spiritual Guidance. In it he said, "Communication with our Father in Heaven is not a trivial matter.
It is a sacred privilege." He then goes on to share his thoughts on
personal revelation or receiving personal guidance. He shares a story of sitting
in a Sunday School class when he received personal direction from the Lord,
wrote it down, pondered, prayed, and then
received more direction. This process continued and I'll just share the last part
of his story (I would encourage you to read the whole talk). He says, "Subsequently I prayed, reviewing with
the Lord what I thought I had been taught by the Spirit. When a feeling of
peace came, I thanked Him for the guidance given. I was then impressed to
ask, “Was there yet more to be given?” I received further impressions, and
the process of writing down the impressions, pondering, and praying for
confirmation was repeated. Again I was prompted to ask, “Is there more I
should know?” And there was. When that last, most sacred experience was
concluded, I had received some of the most precious, specific, personal
direction one could hope to obtain in this life. Had I not responded to the
first impressions and recorded them, I would not have received the last,
most precious guidance."
This is my witness: When we receive guidance from the Lord,
write it down, ponder it, pray for confirmation and then ask "Lord, what else is there or
what more...?", we will grow in light and intelligence. We will draw near to the Lord and he will
bless us with rich and personal experiences in which an environment is created
where all that's promised in Section 93 might be fulfilled. The key is not
simply living just the basic commandments, but then learning to be a
"disciple" and live the personal commandments given to us by
revelation. The Lord will change the
heart of an individual who follows this course and, as the potter's clay, will
mold that person into what he wants them to become.
Thursday, July 19, 2012
Part 1: General Commandments and Personal Commandments
Part 1:
I sustain and support those who have been called to lead in
the church organization by common consent. I believe they (men and women who
humbly seek inspiration and guidance) are entitled to inspired guidance. I
believe the First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve are men who do their best
in a very challenging position - which they never looked for in the first
place. I've had the chance to interact closely with several of them and I know
people who work with them on a daily basis.
Although certainly not perfect, that particular group (as I know them)
are humble men who are constantly
participating in quiet acts of service and kindness on a daily basis. They're
asked to lead a multi-million member organization, spread through countless
cultures. I can't imagine the burden on
their shoulders. Most of them have missed weddings, reunions, birthdays,
baptisms, etc. They have sacrificed their life in many cases.
Though I support and sustain them, it's not by them that
salvation comes (2
Nephi 9:41 ). The Lord Jesus Christ is the keeper of the gate and he
employeth no servant there. We know by
looking through history that it's possible to participate in the ordinances and
rites, yet be hard-hearted and far from God (Israelites in the wilderness,
Pharaoh, the Scribes and Pharisees, etc.). The church and the authority vested in it (a
preparatory gospel) will show us the way and point us in the direction to
Christ. I'm the first to acknowledge that without the organization of the
gospel to include wonderful home teachers, a faithful mission president, the
opportunity to visit families with my father, etc. I wouldn't be here today and
I'd certainly have taken a different path in life.
With that being said, according to the Lord, we as a church
are still under condemnation for handling lightly the things of the Lord, more
specifically the Book of Mormon. This
according to the Lord in D&C 84:54-57 and again re-affirmed by President Benson.
Without providing an answer, I simply ask, what does that mean and how should
it motivate you and I? If we're under condemnation as a whole, what have we
forfeited? If this is the case, then what are we to do?
In Part 2, I'll try and answer that last question and provide my approach, which certainly may not
fit everyone. We can do our part, but we can't force anyone. Following this course, I feel at peace and it allows me to
focus on what's within my control. What I can't control are the decisions of
others, to include those at every level in the church, whether right or wrong. I still firmly believe that no matter who you are, the Lord honors those who honor him.
Tuesday, July 17, 2012
Apply Your Heart to Understanding
Mosiah 12:27-28 is a powerful scripture with a significant
teaching. Abinadi is meeting with King Noah and his priests and makes a comment
and then poses a question. He says to them, "Ye have not applied your hearts to understanding;
therefore, ye have not been wise. Therefore, what teach ye this people?"
The Priests responded, "We teach the
law of Moses."
There are two significant portions of the body mentioned over
and over in scripture, the heart and mind - both are important!
1) The Mind: Each
person has the commandment to study and learn. However, each person is
cautioned in the Book of Nephi, "O
that cunning plan of the evil one! O the vainness, and the frailties, and the foolishness
of men! When they are learned they think they are wise, and they hearken
not unto the counsel of God, for they set it aside, supposing they know of
themselves, wherefore, their wisdom is foolishness and it profiteth them
not. And they shall perish. But to be learned is good if they hearken unto the counsels of God." (2
Nephi 9:28-29).
2) The Heart:
Search for the word "soft" or "soften" in the scriptures
and look at the numerous references to the heart. One example is D&C 121:4,
the Lord commands you and I to "let thine heart be softened." What
does that mean?
Now, the response of the Priests in Abinadi's example becomes
important. Those Priests supposedly taught the Law of Moses, a law of outward
ordinances and rites designed to point people to Christ and his Atonement.
Similarly, we have the sacrament, temple rites, baptism, etc. which are all
designed to point our hearts to Christ. Joseph Smith said those who dwell with
God must have the character of God. It's when we allow these rites and
ordinances to point our HEARTS to Christ, that a true conversion begins,
otherwise many of us can be like the priests of Noah or a Pharisee. Those
Priests of Noah said they taught those rites, but they certainly hadn't applied
their HEARTS to understanding because they persecuted the people and didn't let
those rites and ordinances draw them to the Lord.
I want to share a personal story, but I'll try to be vague in
the details so as not to reveal the people in the example, but it is someone
close to our family:
There's a man who serves in a Stake calling and has always
been engaged in the activities of the Church - at least participates in the
outward "rites". He puts on his suit and tie and he's there every
Sunday. Yet, at home he rules with unrighteous dominion and has created enemies
in his children because of the way he rules his home. His Wife has
recently left the house and they're in the middle of this terrible mess. I'm certainly not the Lord and can't pass
final judgment on this man, but this is EXACTLY what the Pharisees did. They put
on their priestly robes and would adhere strictly to the rites, yet they didn't
recognize their Lord and they crucified him - in other words, they never
applied their HEARTS to understanding. They only used their mind.
What a great lesson! Each of these rites which we participate
in are crucial (temple, sacrament, etc.), but we MUST apply our HEARTS to
understanding and let those point us to Christ. Those rites should soften our
hearts and we should learn to treat those around us as the Master would treat
them. If there's any question on how to treat people, Moroni 7 and D&C 121
describes it quite clearly.
I ask myself the same questions I pose here:
- Do you take the learning you've received and apply your
heart to understanding?
- What are your actions towards others, especially when the
other party seemingly has nothing to offer you?
- When you participate in the sacrament or temple rites, are
you going through the motions or letting it drive you to repentance and a
renewed conviction to serve the Lord?
- The Lord lifted people wherever he went. Do you do the
same? How?
When are hearts understand, we're filled with charity. Moroni
said it well, "Charity is the greatest of all and it never faileth."
May we renew our commitment to apply our HEARTS to understanding
and become more like Christ in our homes, workplace, and wherever we find
ourselves!
Sunday, July 15, 2012
The Book of Mormon and Other Books
As we read the Book of Mormon, it's easy to miss the subtle
references to other books and records which helped in the compilation of the Book of
Mormon. We're far beyond the simple fact that a young boy couldn't put together
such an expansive book. I believe we'll
have access to these other records in a future day and I believe there is a
preparation and transformation happening right now to prepare us to receive
additional records. We have been warned and warned again about the importance
of the Book of Mormon.
I'd like to take a minute to list references to other
scriptures and remind each of us about the importance to learn and live what we
currently have while we prepare for what is to come. According to the Lord in 3
Nephi 26:6-11,"And now there cannot be written in this book even a hundredth
part of the things which Jesus did truly teach unto the people; But behold the plates of Nephi do contain the
more part of the things which he taught the people. And these things have I
written, which are a lesser part of the things which he taught the people; and
I have written them to the intent that they may be brought again unto this
people, from the Gentiles, according to the words which Jesus hath spoken. And
when they shall have received this, which is expedient that they should have
first, to try their faith, and if
it shall so be that they shall believe these things then shall the greater things
be made manifest unto them. And if it so be that they will not believe
these things, then shall the greater things be withheld from them, unto their
condemnation."
This a good graphic of the different volumes that were
abridged, they include records of Lehi, King Benjamin, Zeniff, Alma, Sons of
Mosiah, Helaman, Pahoran, Jaredites, Nephi (the latter), and others. Imagine
the day when we can read the unabridged documents, from the hand of the
author. Even this graphic misses a few
references to other scripture, I'll list those below.
These are a few other references not included in this
graphic:
3 Nephi 7:17 And he [Nephi] did minister many things unto them; and all
of them cannot be written, and a part of them would not suffice,
therefore they are not written in
this book. And Nephi did
minister with power and with great authority.
- It
will be wonderful to get all the words and teaching of Nephi to the people.
3 Nephi 5:9-10 But
behold there are records
which do contain all the proceedings
of this people; and a shorter
but true account was given by Nephi. Therefore I [Mormon] have made my record of these things according to the record of Nephi,
which was engraven on the plates which were called the plates of Nephi.
- This
is significant. It indicates Mormon was searching the numerous records and he
chose to abridge the account provided by Nephi almost 400 years prior. There
were other records and accounts, but Mormon chose Nephi's because he knew that
Nephi was "a just and true man" (3 Nephi 8:1).
This is just a sample of what will be available in the
future if we're true to what's been given us. I look forward to the day when
we can search these additional records and gain a greater understanding of
these people and their dealings with the Lord. In addition, I look forward to
reading that which was too sacred to translate.
My plea is that we give heed to the Book of Mormon that the Lord will
open the door to "greater things."
Friday, July 6, 2012
The Use of Our Time
D&C 60:13 "Thou
shalt not idle away thy time, neither shalt thou bury thy talent that it may
not be known."
Alma 34:32 "For
behold, this life is the time for men to prepare to meet God; yea, behold the
day of this life is the day for men to perform their labors."
I was
sitting in a Ward Council a few weeks ago and a concern came up that members of
the Ward are beginning to feel out of touch with each other. It's been so long
since we did anything together as a Ward, that in many cases, it's only the
meetings on Sunday where we get the chance to associate with each other.
Several
people in the meeting who've been in the area for decades commented how people
use to simply get together and have fun. It didn't require a lot of
preparation, but many people came and they'd have a wonderful time together.
Then they commented how we rarely get together and it seems like
everyone is always in a hurry. As I reflected on those comments, I agree with
everything she said. It seems like we've never been more busy in our lives and
busy doesn't always equal good. With soccer, piano, callings, work, gymnastics,
etc. there's always a demand for our time.
Subsequent
to that meeting, we planned a simple Dutch-oven activity with the Ward and 200
people showed up, it was wonderful to simply relax and talk with someone with
no time constraints.
It's my
opinion that the adversary has been quite successful in our Western Culture in
establishing this "hurry to the next activity" mindset. It takes away
from our relationships, our ability to ponder, and the ability to find peace in our
lives.
Here's
a few points to ponder in your own experiences:
In your Community or Ward:
- How can someone
call on you if they don't know you?
- How can you be
perceptive to someone's needs if you don't know anything about them?
- Who have you
served recently outside of your "calling"?
In your family and personal lives:
- Is your time
spent cultivating fun and wonderful memories with your spouse and children?
- How often do you
take the time to pray, ponder, and reflect?
- What are some
recent things you've done with your actions that teach your children the way's
of the Lord? It's not the words that count, it's the actions, "I can't hear your words because your actions are shouting."
These are just a
few simple, introspective questions regarding our use of time. This week we
took a family drive near Cascade Mountain. It happened to be the only day we
received rain in the past 40 days. It was a great experience as we drove up the
muddy roads, laughing and enjoying each others' company. Not only was the
company great, but as we arrived at the point and looked down towards Rock
Canyon, the slowly rising mists and clouds were amazing as they crept up the
canyon. I took those pictures with my iPhone, it was inspiring to be in the midst of such beautiful creations with the people I love!
It's my hope that
each of us can assess what we're doing with the short time we've been granted
and make the most of it. I believe the
old adage which says, "No man on his death bed ever wished he could have
spent more time at work."
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